The kind of person who comes home from somewhere and posts about someone on Reddit and the like

Wednesday 8/19/26

I saw a post on Reddit the other day that someone had made pertaining to a woman who works security at the Leader Bank Pavilion in the Seaport. The person who made the post said that this security worker was rude to them, and now they were trying to get them harassed, fired, canceled. They didn't say that last part, but that is the intention.

We live in a world where you can't say that something doesn't need saying, because people are that stupid and deplorable. In a non-garbage world, this wouldn't need saying. But here we are, so I'll say it.

If you're someone who leaves a place and immediately takes to Reddit to try and wreck someone's life, you are a loser. You don't deserve life, based on how you are presently constituted. The world would be better without you in it. You're no good to anyone. Not your friends who aren't real friends because someone like this can't have real friends. Not your family, not your "partner."

You're just a massive loser. The thing about this is that I'm not really stating something that such a person doesn't know. I get how these people try and live. It's not actually living. But I'll walk you through it. They know, on some level, how much they suck. How lacking they are. They know that they're a loser. They know that they add nothing of value to the world.

Their lives are about trying to quiet that voice saying as much in their head. Keep it as far from their conscious thoughts as possible. Build up a wall to keep that voice out and from being heard. But they can still hear that voice shouting away and making the wall shake. They still hear the voice's muffled strains of truth.

And that haunts these people. They could just face what they are, accept how they've been, and change that.

That's the problem, though. Because this is winner behavior, not loser behavior.

Somewhere in there would have to be some kind of seed that could be planted, so to speak, that could germinate and help them become less of a loser. And that seed doesn't exist. Because they're a loser through and through.

They aren't going to change. They're going to act horribly, by which I mean, they're going to act out and try to hurt others in order to shift their focus away from just how much of a loser they are.

This won't work. And, rather than realize this isn't working and attempt to find a solution to what actually ails them, they end up doing more of this kind of thing because, once again, that's how much of a loser they are.

For some people, the best you can say about them is that the world will improve some simply by dint of them being gone when the time comes. This is that kind of person.

Here's a little exercise. Take some behavior that you do, and imagine how it would sound, and how you'd feel as a result, and how it would be received, if you told someone you respect or who should be respected, that you did this thing.

"Yeah, so I got home from the concert and my first order of business was hopping on Reddit and sharing a photo I took of this woman, and her first name, which was all I could get from her name tag unfortunately, and I made fun of her hair, too, as I tried to sic lots of people on here and create problems for her and ideally get her fired."

Would you go on television and say it? Would you want your boss to know? How would you feel if a piece about it was going to be written and seen by lots of people with your full name included? Gonna stand by your actions then? How about fielding some questions from reporters? "Yes, I believe my actions weren't only justified, but necessary. I'd do it again."

What I'd say is if you can't put your name on it and have people know about it and feel perfectly fine and comfortable with how you behaved, you've elected to do something not so great that is almost certainly indicative of your lack of character and your failings as a person in what ought to be the most perfunctory ways. The bare minimum ways.

If you had good parents, your parents would be ashamed of you for acting this way. Or what? Would you call your father and say, "Hey, dad, here's this thing I did yesterday after I got home..." And if your dad wasn't also a loser, how would that go? Would he say, "That's awesome, good for you"?

There's a reason why these things never have names attached to them. Sure, one reason is that practically everyone alive right now is a giant coward who can only do or say anything with pack approval; they're going to wait to see how what they might say or do will play before they say or do it; they're trying to match an echo to an echo chorus, and to do that, you first have to determine what's echoing.

But it's also because the loser realizes just how much of a loser they are. Thanks to that voice causing a ruckus outside the wall and the muffled shouts that are nonetheless getting through.

Think about that. You're such a loser that you have to keep it top secret that you're the one doing this. Because no one up to such a thing would ever consent to having their name on it and if that was a requirement they wouldn't be saying anything. You think that's because they're proud of themselves? Of course not. It's because they know what a loser they are.

They're going to try to make others pay for that. And who do you think they most want to try and hurt? Non-losers. (They're ever on the lookout for people they think are vulnerable to these attacks, which is never an attempt to go one-on-one/face-to-face against a perceived adversary, but rather assemble people to gang up on the person identified--or misidentified--as defenseless. Losers are invariably cowards.)

Losers don't fool anybody. They don't even fool other losers. The other losers just want to get in on the loser party so that they can try and feel like less of a loser.

Funny thing: you can't overcome being a loser, and feeling like the loser you are, by being more of a loser, and yet, that's what losers do. As if there's nothing they can do right. Accordingly, they double down and act out more, and the voice outside the wall keeps getting louder and louder.

Know these people for what they are. Lest you become one yourself.